Friday, March 13, 2009
♥ parent-child
"parents cannot leave their children. so their children leave them." those aren't the exact words from what i've read. but it gets the thought that i want to say. and yes, i would kinda leave them after a couple of months. it's what i've always wanted. i know it would be hard to be away from home, my comfort zone. i'm well taken care of my parents, especially my mom. they make me feel sheltered, secured and, uh, lucky. but i want to ESCAPE! to be free from chaos and bad tempers and cursing and unnecessary noise(particularly shouting).. i know i'm not that good at being a family member, but hey, a good tree bears good fruits, and a bad tree bears stinkin' ones. i know only a few things about parenting, i guess. but as a daughter, i know what i need and want from my parents. work. set a good example. never say things if they aren't worth saying. lower that friggin' pride. work and earn your own money! if you really love your children, strive to give them your best. the young ones usually know if your efforts are enough. . . . ayoko na. fyi, i'm not preaching. i'm just airing out my frustrations. last thing: i'm aware of my shortcomings, but i'm kinda working on it. parents, give time to listen to your children or at least be less sensitive to yourselves and be more sensitive to them, you'll realize that they aren't the only ones to blame.
6:51 PM
